‘Relationship is a thing: you cling to it.
Relating is a flow, a movement, a process’.
Perhaps you have doubts about your relationship, over your future together? You may even be at the point of ending your relationship? Issues around sexuality and intimacy may be affecting your relationship? If you have the feeling that you can no longer talk to each other, can’t communicate on the same wavelength anymore, without the conversation escalating, then perhaps Gestalt couples therapy can help you.
Couples therapy offers you the opportunity to get to know yourself and your partner again in new ways. It involves being open to what is going on now in your relationship. I help you to seek connection with each other from a position of (true) autonomy, to listen to each other, to discover the patterns in the relationship and to restore trust. Furthermore, I help you to try and increase your ability to “differentiate”, that is to balance your desire to be your own person with your desire to be connected to your partner.